Guy at work now sending e-mails. "Are you okay? Why haven't you responded to my texts?" I ignored the first e-mail and then another came. I said, "The more I thought about it all the more insulted I was and I was very disturbed by it all." He replied with he "didn't mean to offend me and will keep it all professional from now on." But followed it all up with " I thought I could joke with you."
Joke? I asked what he meant and he referred to the text I ignored yesterday about "thinking of you" and the "Ribbit Ribbit" comment. I told him it was all the texts from the day before. He had the audacity to try to sound offended himself. I swear, I just don't get people. I just hope he stands by his word and leaves me alone. It is sad because it was a friend I thought I had all along. Now look at what it has become. WTF!!!!!
It's cute when guys try to salvage their egos when you've called them on their crap and they know they just fell on their face.
ReplyDeleteI had one tell me that he wasn't talking about ME and that I was mistaken. I have printed matter to prove I wasn't but I let it go anyway so things wouldn't get TOO awkward. Months of silence and a long apology email came later. I was nonchalant and dismissive about the whole thing. He's been fine since, but we're no longer friends.